Dedicated to Mama Adedire Juliet Adekanmbi, a very dear sister and prolific writer, on the occasion of her birthday today.
I have seen some of your secret labours and we’ve come a long way, I love and honour you and there is nothing you can do about it!
The Award Winning Woman: “He who finds a wife findeth a good thing and has obtained favour from the Lord” sayeth the Scriptures. He who finds a wife, not just he who finds a woman.
Little wonder many guys are finding women but then have not obtained favour from the Lord!
Ladies, if you want the best man as your head, you must be a best option for another such that if you were a man, you would gladly marry you.
Maturity is needed in marriage, and I can see you are matured enough when you become a wife.
You must first be a wife, not until after marriage, you don’t need to be a mother before possessing the heart of a mother.
A wife is an office, it is a throne you must occupy before being found; this is not a function of age or physical stature, when you qualify for and occupy that office, then you are mature as a woman!
This kind of woman is strong and honourable, kind and of an understanding heart who opens her mouth with wisdom, intelligent and virtuous, hardworking, worded and prayerful, homely and domesticated, beautiful and spiritual! Recall ‘fire is bae!’
In relationship matters, as I always say, contrast to metaphysics, like poles attract and unlike poles repel!
Some ladies, by choices and lifestyles, are destiny destroyers and fire extinguishers, some pain in the neck.
Some are destiny changers, some are destiny wreckers, some destiny boosters, great assets and solid backbones, some destiny helpers.
That factor and quality of being a wife must be present if you must be an award winning woman!
Stop wasting time and get empowered, get busy with your life and invest in your mind for an enlarged capacity!
Confess this and act therewith; “I’m a woman of virtue, I’m a woman of grace, my love can’t be bought with money, I’m a woman of excellence, a virtuous woman, a woman of power and grace, far above rubies.
I am an eternal lover of my husband, an award winning mother, a great blessing to my husband and children. They will call me blessed for the hand of the Lord is upon me”
No matter who you are, you are the assistant Holy Spirit primarily to your husband and children, and then to others as a minister! Your ministry and desires are first to your husband and household!
Decide to be an award winning daughter, sister, lover, wife and mother today! That it might be seen and said of you: “Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all!!” Shalom!!!
©Clement Aanuoluwapo
√Setting the Pace√
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